In the busyness of modern life, amidst all the obligations and distractions, lies a major responsibility and opportunity for parents, godparents, grandparents, and other influential figures: the shaping of the faith of our children and youth.

While the task may seem daunting, it is within our power to instill in them a deep reverence for spirituality and an active participation in worship. Here's how we can make a difference:

1. Put a Priority on Worship and Family Study: Let us make worship and Bible study a priority in our families. By consistently attending and emphasizing the importance of these gatherings and study, we demonstrate to our children the value we place on spiritual nourishment.

2. Preparation for Peace: The chaos of a rushed morning can detract from the sanctity of worship. Prepare for the service the night before to avoid stress-induced conflicts. Lay out clothes, establish bedtime routines, and discuss the plan for the morning to ensure a smooth transition to church.

3. Family Unity in Worship: Sit together as a family during the service. This fosters a sense of unity and belonging within the faith community.

4. Engage Children: Situate young children where they can see and participate in the service. Provide them with bulletins or children's materials to keep them engaged and involved. Don’t be afraid to sit up front!

5. Foster Reverence and Joy: Approach worship with an attitude of reverence and joy. Don’t just treat it as another obligation. Let children witness the sincerity of our devotion and the delight we take in communing with the divine.

6. Encourage Participation: Expect and encourage children and youth to actively participate in worship through singing, praying, reciting, and standing as appropriate.

7. Dialogue and Reflect: Engage children in quiet conversation throughout the service to explain its significance and meaning. Afterward, discuss together what was learned and experienced, fostering deeper understanding and connection.

Lead by Example: Perhaps most importantly, let us lead by example. Our actions speak volumes, and children will emulate the behaviors and attitudes they observe in us.

In nurturing the faith of our children, we embark on a sacred journey of guidance and growth. By following these principles and practices, we can cultivate a deep and lasting spirituality within the hearts of the next generation, enriching not only their lives but also the fabric of our faith communities. Let us embrace this noble task with humility, dedication, and love.

 In Christ alone,  

Aaron Finkel, DCE